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Animal testing or murder ?

Different people with different perceptions together builds up a society  some says aww how cute this dog is and some hates them , some sees a tiger as a national animal with respect and some believed in showing power through hunting …

Well after many years of development now we could see humans being kind towards animals,accepting themselves as social animals , treating them like babies like a part of family forwarding great values to their next generation as well .
Movements ,nation parks , zoo, veterinarian hospitals ,day cares so many things are being promoted for the betterment of these innocent creatures .
Sounds great ?? off course it is .
But there is another cruel part of this society when on one hand we promote animal friendly environment on the other hand some people torture these innocent creatures for there experimentation of medicines devices , theories , for which they probably cant sacrifice human life true I agree to the point that for experimentation we cant sacrifice human life but who gave you this right to sacrifice others just because they are homeless innocent and cant stand against you …?

Do you really think this is justified any way ?
And how could you be sure that any drug (medicine )which works on a mice would also be effective on human ?
As per I know we have different DNA compositions..isn’t? Anyways those are big people scientist they might know more than me…
I was wondering if they test human products on animals then what if before launching pedigree it might be tested on human …eyukkk that would be humiliating , torture …. never

well that was just the smallest example.
Exactly !! now that you are feeling the same as they might feel so why don’t we take a stand for these innocent creatures who cant speak …

Lets be human , lets be kind everyone …not just to your pet but to everyone else .
Lets stood up of the real justice
“Thanks for reading “
 

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A night when i found someone !!

Apart from crackling leaves and jinxed barks I heard something that night …
Something like if somebody is crying in and asking for help as if someone is stucked somewhere or may be kept somewhere in the dark … I tried to concentrate , I tried to follow that voice for hours and hours ,I just wanted to help that poor soul…
After covering quite a long distance I was very tired was drowning in the my own sweat ugh I still could find out from where that voice was coming …
I sat onto the footpath it was 12:00 am…
Silence everywhere no sound ,not barks, no wind nothing I could feel ,accept my own heart beats …
Hope you aren’t thinking of ghosts at midnight… well there were no ghosts accept me …ha ha
With heavy breaths, loud heart beats and a sweaty body I finally discovered the origin of that voice …any guesses?
Well that was me , the inner me who was asking for help …don’t you think that was funny ?off-course it is ,when I just couldn’t  hear my inner voice before and when I finally heard it I didn’t recognized it .
More like a mirage, “mrgtrishna” as a deer always kept running whole of his life in the forest just to find out the source of smell which was actually coming from his body …but have you ever heard that voice of yours ? like somebody wanted talk to you and you cant  find him and then you just guess it may be as a ghost or so…
Ya this is probably a ghost ,your ghost ,the poor soul of yours …nobody else could hear ,could see ,could feel …
That day when I heard her begging for a life ,for freedom,for a company ,for someone just to share how she feels like,what she thinks about ,people ,life ,work and everything else …
That day I heard her , I heard her patently , I heard everything thing she wanted to say since forever …
She told me that she wanted to cry when she is upset ,she wanted to dance when she is happy ,she wanted eat anything she crave for without thinking of her weight ,she told me how much she loves talking ,she told me how much she hates medicines ,how much exhausted she is keeping herself into set of protocols , she told me how she wanted to fly ,free to every possible direction she could …

That night we had a wonderful conversation …
While returning  back to home I saw something  …a beautiful simile on my face .

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.

I was happy ,I was relaxed,I was happy because now I wasn’t alone ,because now I got a friend who could never leave me alone,who is more like me ,who thinks like me ,to whom I could talk whenever I wish to no matter where m I , no matter if there are signals on phone or not , no matter if its day or night ,no matter ….actually now nothing matters to her and me .
We became best friends ,we talk ,we discuss ,we walk ,she hears me patiently ,she helps me out every time …
Since that night at any phase of  day I just find some time to spend with her ..
Not just in the silence now I can hear her even in a hell loud noise .

Wait!! tell me something have you ever found any friend like I did?
….No ?
Then why waiting get up and go for a walk i am sure you will surely find a wonderful partner like I did …
Walks are not just meant to experience nature or to loose weight …it is meant to discover something no matter if you cant show it to somebody else…
Spend sometime with yourself I m sure you will love it …
 
“Thanks for reading”

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friendships and my flight ….


Clutched into a trap of emotions, fears regrets under the sag of guilt I’ve past six years of my life.
With all those messy thoughts and noise signals suppressing my informative signals getting into my brain .I’ve waited this long and important period of my life.
People usually call it as depression but I could have never found any strong reason to call it depression I said I was just messed up wasn’t in really.
Being an understanding and responsible father my dad took me to psychologist for counseling and to a psychiatrist t but when I didn’t get any better he changed my doctor .year after year I’ve been treated under many different psychiatric supervision.
But the situation was getting worst and worst I moved to hostel where I was unable to adjust and overcome my mess.
After a long time period of time when I met one of my old friends, she observed something really unusual.
She asked me “where is my Jahnavi “.
I replied here “I am right in front of you “.but she wasn’t convinced with all those pointes I presented to justify my unusual behavior.
After a friendship of 15 years she knew me so well that she could clearly look deep into my soul and thy brain of mine, it didn’t took hrs for her to figure out my mess.
She didn’t consoled me neither did she asked anything. She only used to come at my place took me somewhere to eat and have fun and let me express all of my emotions. She didn’t advised me anything .she just made me introduced to the real me , she made me realized that I m special ,I m strong ,that I could do anything I wish to .
More like lord hanuman I’ve just forgotten my powers all I need to be jus recall them.
So she started spending most of her time hearing me and I puked all my mess in front of her and trust me that was damm relaxing.
This process was more like doing amplitude modulation by passing an attenuated signal through a low pass filter making it free from noise and retrieving only information signals.
Now my brain was only getting informative signals and I started discovering my own new personality shaping it according to the way I wanted to be, rather than stay spilled on to the wall.
Truly a friend in need is a friend indeed…
A friend did what no psychologist and psychiatrist could do.
She made my soul free, free from that cage of mess and made me what I m today
I m free today, free from regret, free from all those scary thoughts, guit and free from that word of depression.
I use to think why we need friend and now I know all of us need a true friend more than anything else.
Do share all your inner demons with your friends ,call them ,tell them that you are so lucky to have them ,tell them every small to smallest thing that feels buried in .just split all that up don’t swallow it down.
Love your friends, respect them…
Be with them in all those time when you need them and all those times when they need you.
Live free…
Feel free…
Be you, keep sharing, and keep smiling…
Thanks for reading

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Another number!!


Have you ever watched the movie “Ye Jawani Hai Dewani” really a great concept about life. Remember what did bunny said “unlike others I’m not goanna have same boring life, graduations till 22, job at 24, married by 25, and then after retirement wait…wait till you die”.sound like so boring and lifeless .well that’s the reality and how we actually live not everyone but most of us .I’m sure about at least 90% of us.
A life full of responsibilities, stress, office targets, and pressure to score high, compeditions, studies and bla bla bla…..we have so much to do in such small time.
I so wish if a day could be of more than 24hr.so that at least I could sleep for sometime peacefully. Well can’t help it right?
The era has changed, people are changing too. Now parents do ask their kids about their career preferences rather than imposing their own incomplete dreams.
But, are you guys still sure about whatever you are doing? Are you sure about the course you are perusing at present? About the job you are doing? Were you really sure about what to choose after high school?
I don’t know about you people but I wasn’t. I have never got enough time to explore and try new things, neither to discover my own new personality ,or to think about what I like and what I dislike? What I want do ?How I want to be ?every time I was busy in shaping myself according to the vessel my parents poured me into .
I thought after 10th I’ll be having 3 months (enough time) to think about my future but my bad luck there were no vacations my classes started just after few days of my exams .I opted PCM only because my brother told me that by this I’ll be having many options to mold my career whenever I would be ready and now I would be having two years to decide.
Sounds fine? Yeah…
Now, after I have entered in class XI I got busy with lectures, coaching’s, syllabus, competitions etc. Through all those years I was running behinds everything, and forgot to stop and think, of the direction where I wanted to go. I was just rushing along with that flock of sheep.
Then after 12th my father asked –“what do you want to be? “I was all blank…
I had no idea about what is B.tech for? What is B.com for? What is the difference between B.sc and B.A? What will theses courses make you? What are all UG courses which one was for PG? I didn’t know about any of them.
Because I wasn’t ready with any idea so, my father told me to pursue Btech and become an electrical engineer. I said ok cool no issue. Now the next issue was about college. As I didn’t had any idea about what’s really going .so my destiny threw me here in Bansthali Vidhypith where after spending three years I’ve realized that not every course is worth pursuing and especially when you are not really sure …
Here day after day I have met different kind of people ,faced many challenges ,explored a lot and the best thing I discovered most of me yeah not the whole of me but the most the most of me .
So now I know at least engineering is not my cup of tea…
And that I was made for something else…
May be that’s psychology, may be law, may be literature, I don’t know but I m pretty sure that’s not engineering.
Now a question arises why? Why I’m still doing it? Why I’m still trying to fall in love with these complicated circuits which has made my brain system corrupted? Well that’s only because of my age come on I’m 21 I should be earning before I get 24 and marriage ,you know how the society is ?All those great guys would get booked by the time I’ll be 26 …ha-ha really ??
So that’s why I can’t think of starting my journey with a whole new pace …and is it worth starting with a zero? Is it worth struggling when I’ll need more of my age to invest?
Now do you realize why people usually give upon their dreams and keep on doing the same shit with same unhappy faces? Just because of so many questions which enter into your brain more like virus that eats up all your decision making files…
but why is that age matters more than your life when it’s just the 20% of yours and you are sacrificing whole damm 80%for that ?I can’t waste my 80% in just crying and regretting that I could have been happier if I would have taken just a small step for myself .
I think there is no particular age when you get to know yourself completely. Every next day you discover a new you .and in this life, age could never be a time limit when you have no surety about the next second of your life …
Feel free to do whatever you with to do and whenever you want to .don’t let your age stop you .it’s just another number doesn’t matter if its 21,41or if even its 81…
Live this life, just don’t spend it….
Thanks for reading …

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Not ready yet …


6th Feb. 1997 a baby girl was born in kalaniketan, who has always been pampered and nurtured with eternal love and care .this baby girl was given entire attention of the family which probably a baby boy could ever get .yes you guessed it right that’s me …
Since the day when a child takes birth the entire family got sparkled with joy and happiness .Till the extend a baby could see he/she would only be recognising smiling faces .so ,this is an occasion for celebration right ?off course and that’s why we celebrate birthdays .
And special mention to the first child as I’m the elder one too .New parents are usually very excited for this great new challenge ,new responsibilities and lots of new fun memories .
Right from his clothes ,toys ,soap, medicine ,pillows every small to smallest thing has to be taken care of, not just after the baby was born but even before than that, in fact since the day when they get the news of pregnancy .not just parents but everyone else starts discussing the baby’s name ,his /her career etc.,
Well if a coin has a head then surely there would be tail too. And my tale is about “death”.
I clearly don’t remember all of my childhood but in my blurry pictures all I remember was only a few faces .I don’t remember how did my mom reacted when she saw me for the first time .neither do i remember about how my dad took me in his arms for the first time .
My childhood memories starts with a park, a park where my grandpa use to take me, every morning and the evening for a walk, with the smell of those flowers I use to pluck .including all those fascinating stories my grandma use to tell me, with all those edibles grandpa use to offer me so that I would stop crying .and all those games I played with my mom ,with all those toys and chocolates my dad use to bring.
Till the day my baby brother was born .No I didn’t got abundant neither did they started ignoring me .but in my blurry pictures its most of me and my grandparents. The time when grandpa used to drop me to the school, when we use to play together ,when he teaches me in the evening and all those winter nights with born fire and all those fun moments I spent with them.
All those memories and all those moments always made me feel like I’m the luckiest person that I have such cool people in my life.
They have never let me feel that I’m anyways less than a guy and all those values they have poured into the mud of my soul which made me what I m today . The best gift they have ever given me was my vision of practicality and positivity .so, me and my small world starts and ends within these few people. whenever I sat onto the platform and wished to fly they have always been my shield or should I say my all time support .
They have never let me felt insecure or lonely but the only thing that has always made me restless of thinking was ,what if when one day ill woke up and there would be no one to accompany my morning walks? What if when one day I came back to home and couldn’t find them? What if when one day there would be no one to turn me towards the right path? What if when one day there would be no one to tell me all those fascinating stories that have always been my motivation to move ahead? how would I play when my aces got missing ?what if one day there would be no one to hear me out, with whom would I share my inner demons, my fears ,my excitement and all of my emotions?
Years and years passed away I grew young and they grew older ,I grew strong ,independent ,they became weak and dependent ,dependent on each other dependent on someone or should i say us ,yes we the kids…
Since the day when my grandpa got his first cardiac attack I was asked to prepare myself for that one day. Since then I was trying harder and harder to accept that after all those winning heads in the family there would a tail some day. When my bubble shield would be broken and I had to fly on my own.
Every next time when he got sick my brain got stabbed by all those scary thoughts. And probably he knew all about my fears. so, whenever I use to meet him I always saw him smiling and assuring me that he is goanna live really longer ,assuring me that whenever ill get back home ill find him sitting next to me with same old stories and a smile on his face.
On March 7, 2018 he passed away on ventilator when I was here miles away and I got this news 4 days after he was gone. Next day was my exam so I had no time left to shed tears; I had no one to share my pain with. that time I had to focus yes, I knew that was hard but no other options left for me and somehow I manged, i managed to believe that when ill get back home ill find him sitting next to my with the same smiling face as he promised me .
No I couldn’t accept the truth because my brain wasn’t ready yet, wasn’t ready to accept any information, knowledge, facts, no news, nothing.
Every time when I think about how death would be? when there would be no pain ,no emotions, no stress, no work pressure etc., when suddenly you stop feeling anything ,end of all the emotions and you will reach to some other world .something that is really memorising .well that’s actually what we wish for ,no pain ,stress less life …
So is it like all this time we were waiting for death since the day we were born? Actually yes and thus this tail worth celebrating too…
But then why people cry? Well it’s not about the pain in death it’s the pain of losing some one, the pain of defeat in the battle where you failed to save them.
The pain for which we are always scared of when we already knew that one day would surely come when all your 52 cards would get abundant .that one day your shield would be broken .
See I know all the facts and figures but I’m still not ready to accept this death sentence. Are u?

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Khelenge Ji-jaan se – Future of sports in India

“Kaun kehta hai Hindustan me dum nhi hai, ek baar sports me se politics hta kr toh dekho…gali gali me champion milenge.” – R. Madhavan. Movie: Saala Khadoos.
 
Indians are known for their spirit of living and enjoying the life to fullest, being one of the oldest civilization, india gave world the beauty of music, dance and most importantly sports.
Today too many games that are present to the world from India are still being played, so why it seems like this proactive and young generation country of ours has become a lost star in the sky of sports and athletics.
The madness people of India have for cricket is somehow lost when it comes to enthusiasm of other games and sports. I am not saying that liking or mass-liking a single is bad (but maybe obsessing this, like look people tend to behave so badly to the family of the team players if they ever lose a match.)
 
Actually, this is not the real real problem, the problem is lack of interest for sports in our country youngsters.
There was a time when we as students, used to wait for our sports period because it was like a breath of fresh air from our daily activities but sadly this excitement is also vanishing and sports in school has limited itself to a period.
Schools are the 1st place where a kid is exposed to opportunity of bright future, but what will happen to the future of our country where school teaches us that sports is just a EXTRA period.
Kids want to become astronaut (for a short period of time), doctor,engineer,businessmen etc but not a sports person ( not including cricket here) and by chance any kid dares to see this dream then, our ASIAN parents, with a slipper in their hands and guilt trips in their conversation, are more than enough to kill that dream.
These all were problems on personal basis but what about the problems on qider basis. We can see the bureaucracy and corruption embedded in this too.
Inadequate facilities,  irresponsible behaviour, lack of equipment etc are the problems which can be dealt somehow, but what can we do about the officials who cannot see the name and fame of country in front of their hunger.
Sports is one of the most pious form of arts of our body and mind, here, we exerts ourselves to death, sweat infinitely but still get happy and satisfaction with the result.
But mixing politics and corruption with this art is a shameful act for our country.
There are no of obstacles which are in the way of future of sports in India, which can only be dealt by continuously striking the conscience of the authorities.
Firstly, when any sports man is pursuing his/her sport, he or she has to face many obstacles itself on the first step- training, fees,rules and requirements, bureaucracy, red tapism, brown nosing etc.
After this when finally passing through all this struggles   they qualify for any tournament, they will be kept devoid of standard basic facilities. Is this the respect a person should get who is out there, representing our country in front of so many competitors, and try to win for it.
Definitely not, and why only sports person, we should too criticise and raise our voices for our generation, firstly start with schools and persuade them to teach and let them PLAY too, after all SPORTSMANSHIP is also a subject and that too an important one.
Secondly if your child want to pursue his career in any sports, the least you can do is to support him instead of scaring him off from the unforeseen future.
Knock the  door of the authorities too that either they should improve the level of sports in India or they should stop making comments on the no of golds India wind in Olympics while sipping their tea.
And Lastly you, yes you can too do to. No matter what your age is come out and play,encourage others to, take the kids from your neighbourhood and coach them in the game you are good with. To be honest, it will leave you with happiness and less of guilty of not enjoying your life to the fullest. Today’s genration is too aware and is working with government for the betterment of the field. So why not us too.
Sports is not just only a physical exercise, its an emotion which will make you feel confident, I still regret and is salty over  the fact that I wasn’t given an good opportunity otherwise I would also have at least a memory of me where I was happy with the game I loved.
Also isn’t it time of coming of summer vacations !!!, that’s your chance, go out and make a change.
 
Thanks for reading and double thanks if you actually apply it  in your life.

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femenism#beinghuman

Man and Woman Being Weighed on Scales


People talking about feminism ,gender equality ,women empowerment and so much stuff.celebrating international women’s day thanking all the women of society.debating about women exploitation .but how many of you do remember about men’s day ?yes I agree there are so many issues about women that needs attention and I agree that women has a right to celebrate their day they needs to be appreciated, they needed to be thanked and we considerably have a list of so many days for appreciating every single role of a women if its daughters day ,mother’s day ,rakhshabandhan or this women’s day itself .But how many of you remember father’s day ,or you celebrated Son’s day OK leave that how many of you know about 19 th November ?yes this is when men’s day has to be celebrated .
I agree that women plays a great role in building up a family and the society but mens are as equally important for the society .
No ,now don’t judge me weither I m a real feminist or not !!yes I m a true feminist .I talk about women empowerment I talk about women safety but here we need to understand what feminism actually says ..
Its not about just the empowerment of the women its about treating both the gender equally .do you really think that a man has never been exploited or been harassed at his work place or anywhere ??that they don’t have any restrictions ? They do yes they get harassed been abused and not just you are being restricted in a set of protocols to be like a girl to be sensitive and delecate ,sacrificing etc..,a guy equally grows up with the pressure to show his masculinity, to have beards ,to be strong have muscles etc..,As a women is expected to be a great homemaker equally a man is expected to be the earning one .
Its not about letting women into the man’s world its about letting yourself as how you really wanna be.
Be a human without #beingwoman or else #beingman.
Don’t hesitate to register your complains if you have ever been exploited or been abused no matter whats your gender.no matter who you are a male ,a female or even if you are transgender ….
This is the Time we need to think about how are society needs to be not about how worst it has been since years ago ..
I think when we talk about safety we should make our society human friendly not just women friendly …

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When you say you are lonely !!


Hey guys since these day I have been observing many people updating quotes telling everyone that I m so lonely I have nobody yeah that song that used to be my ringtone for a long time …
But seriously guys have u ever thought why we feel lonely ..? We have so many people around ..actually u know what feelings like being lonely and feeling of togetherness is in your own hands until and unless u are lost in some African forests umm but some people might enjoy animals company as well haha ..well jokes apart what u have to feel is in your hands .say u wanna feel lonely just close your doors sit on to the window side and say I m so lonely I m so lonely nobody cares for me and start memorising every negative thing every bad thing happened to u ever since you were born .even when u said hi to a stranger and he didn’t reply take it as an insult take it as ignorance .and start ignoring people feel like everyone hates u nobody wants u and yes people those who cares for u will surely try to know what happened to u suddenly. they would probably ask but no here u d need not to reply ignore behave rude very rude so that one day they would give upon u…they won’t hate u for sure but they would get tired someday .
On the other hand if u wanna feel being loved being pampered then that’s a tough task u need to put up hard efforts u need to ignore negative aspects of every relationship u need to see positive side and seriously that’s the toughest part being positive ohh god ye to na hopayega.and then try to get involved with people don’t wait for them to ask if u wanna join .next is u need to sacrifice u need to cooperate .u need to behave nicely .u need to share feeling with people u need to tell them what u expect from them exactly rather than keeping it into your personal dairies.
So I guess we feel lonely because feeling lonely is rather an easy task.
Just open your doors and allow people they are actually waiting outside …