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Travel

Experiencing nature!!

From plains to plateues, from oceans to mountains we have a great geographical variation. So as there climatic conditions and have we have been provided with a large variety of vegetation.
Light fruity breeze and walking on fresh flushy grass is so relaxing…isn’t it?
And do you remember your early childhood drawings  where there was  always a hut, a tree, mountains and a bright yellow sun…that’s  so common, common as a common man’s dream ,a small house and a garden.
But every age has a different wish list now we are at the age of exploring; we are at the age of discovering and experiencing the beauty of thy mother nature. Spirits which are really willing to face challenges ,wanted to climb mountains ,wants to dive deep down into the oceans and want to capture this colorful world into eyes and yeah into  cameras too.
Well to cut in short rather than sitting on a relaxing chair and sipping coffee while reading newspaper ,we would  love to tour. Now what is tourism? It is basically about travelling for pleasure and business purpose.
People usually prefer visiting monuments to experience the history ,they pay there and follow rule although I never felt any excited while watching all those old boring buildings’ they all were so similar …broken destroyed and the most annoying thing in india was all those hearts and names scribbled into it … so dam irritating .
I would rather wish to feel that light rain showering small water droplets and those clouds covering all those mountains, those beautiful blossoming  flowers  and those tiny green leaves…wow so mesmerising ,morelike I m in heaven.
Well there is a term for this “eco tourism”.
What is ecotourism exactly?? Ecotourism is a form of tourism involving visiting fragile, pristine, and relatively undisturbed natural areas, intended as a low-impact and often small scale alternative to standard commercial mass tourism. It means responsible travel to natural areas conserving the environment and improving the well-being of the local people.
In simple words as I said experiencing nature without disturbing its balance, with a responsible thought of con
servation.
In India you can experience all of all of the different varieties.
Say wanna experience snow fall go towards the north Kashmir, dehradun etc..,
If you want to experience desert life and sunburns you are most welcome to Rajasthan, want to go beach? Book your tickets for Goa.
What never saw any coconut tree? Why waiting plan your vacations for south .full of greenery and a great architectural history ….and so much more.
Smart people of India while writing Vedas they have created a way so that all those 28 states and hundreds of languages would be able to know each other’s culture and experience this beautiful country….for which they discovered a term call “teertha” and according to Indian mythology only after visiting all four theerths in the northern, southern eastern and western parts of India a man could get into heaven.
And hence they actually experience heaven before being called belated.
So welcome to India and experience heaven …or should I say try and have an experience of eco tourism.
Feel fresh, live fresh, experiencelife by exploring the world…
Get connected to nature through eco tourism…
Thanks for reading…

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Inspirational Motivation

friendships and my flight ….


Clutched into a trap of emotions, fears regrets under the sag of guilt I’ve past six years of my life.
With all those messy thoughts and noise signals suppressing my informative signals getting into my brain .I’ve waited this long and important period of my life.
People usually call it as depression but I could have never found any strong reason to call it depression I said I was just messed up wasn’t in really.
Being an understanding and responsible father my dad took me to psychologist for counseling and to a psychiatrist t but when I didn’t get any better he changed my doctor .year after year I’ve been treated under many different psychiatric supervision.
But the situation was getting worst and worst I moved to hostel where I was unable to adjust and overcome my mess.
After a long time period of time when I met one of my old friends, she observed something really unusual.
She asked me “where is my Jahnavi “.
I replied here “I am right in front of you “.but she wasn’t convinced with all those pointes I presented to justify my unusual behavior.
After a friendship of 15 years she knew me so well that she could clearly look deep into my soul and thy brain of mine, it didn’t took hrs for her to figure out my mess.
She didn’t consoled me neither did she asked anything. She only used to come at my place took me somewhere to eat and have fun and let me express all of my emotions. She didn’t advised me anything .she just made me introduced to the real me , she made me realized that I m special ,I m strong ,that I could do anything I wish to .
More like lord hanuman I’ve just forgotten my powers all I need to be jus recall them.
So she started spending most of her time hearing me and I puked all my mess in front of her and trust me that was damm relaxing.
This process was more like doing amplitude modulation by passing an attenuated signal through a low pass filter making it free from noise and retrieving only information signals.
Now my brain was only getting informative signals and I started discovering my own new personality shaping it according to the way I wanted to be, rather than stay spilled on to the wall.
Truly a friend in need is a friend indeed…
A friend did what no psychologist and psychiatrist could do.
She made my soul free, free from that cage of mess and made me what I m today
I m free today, free from regret, free from all those scary thoughts, guit and free from that word of depression.
I use to think why we need friend and now I know all of us need a true friend more than anything else.
Do share all your inner demons with your friends ,call them ,tell them that you are so lucky to have them ,tell them every small to smallest thing that feels buried in .just split all that up don’t swallow it down.
Love your friends, respect them…
Be with them in all those time when you need them and all those times when they need you.
Live free…
Feel free…
Be you, keep sharing, and keep smiling…
Thanks for reading

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Education Health

Being woman and taboos


I was 10 when I got introduced to this term “periods” with a big shhhh…..
My pain, irritations, discomfort, all those mood swings and my sickness was a secret among me and other women in the house.
I can’t discuss anything about it openly shhhh….shhhh…
I always thought when the use of baby diapers and sanitary napkins are so alike then, why they are supplied like drugs .That feels so embarrassing to ask for a pad from a male shopkeeper and all those layers of newspaper wrapping and then into a black polythene passed beneath the table .not just that after all that you need to find another safe place to hide your secret.
In fact how many of you know about all those myths and all thy shitty rule women have to follow during these days?
Let me tell you there is a whole damm list of protocols different for the women in different community .like if you are a “Jain” you could relate to it  most. Have you ever noticed that on some particular days your mom doesn’t serve you food? That she is not sleeping on bed and wearing rags (clothes she probably won’t wear during normal days)? Have you seen here eating alone? And have you ever observed her walking out in the dark? Well if not then I guess you need to open up your eyes.
Let’s start from the basics what is menstruation? Menstruation, also known as a period or monthly, is the regular discharge of blood and mucosal tissue (known as menses) from the inner lining of the uterus through the vagina. The first period usually begins between twelve and fifteen years of age, a point in time known as menarche. In simpler words after a particular age female ovaries starts releasing ovum (egg) and this gets fertile when a sperm fusses with it later which turns into a baby .for which after every 28 days a female body starts preparing developing a muscular cushion for the baby in the uterus for its protection and further development .now when an egg is released and doesn’t gets fertile the muscular wall automatically starts decaying (shedding) and discharging the waste through vagina in the form of blood. Since this process is a bit slow so this usually ends up within 120-170hrs.yes we bleed for 5 to 7 days continuously in a month .Amazed? Or shocked?
What did you find here worth hiding? What is there to be embarrassed of?
It is not a disease it’s just another biological process and it doesn’t only happens with humans but elephants and apes do have periods too. More like when you pee or you do shit, when you discuss your constipation and diarrhea openly. When you Indians laugh upon fart jokes along with your friend’s .This is as usual as all those things.
I don’t say I’m sick these days or it’s that time of the month I clearly I don’t hesitate to say hey I m on my periods. And I’ m proud to be a woman because I ‘m the one who could do anything, when I could bear such great pain, when I can deal with all those challenges during those days. this is what motivates me every time that I m more powerful than any guy around me it’s just that he could throw thing and I can keep things in .he can give pain and I can bear it to any extend .I m proud that only i can create the path for the survival of human existence. Then why should I be shushing.
I just want to ask you why? Why men should not know about it? Why they shouldn’t beware of the reason behind all those irritations and mood swing they make  joke of? Why they shouldn’t know that to be a mother we don’t just sacrifice those damm 9 months and our career but we go through a huge pain since our entire teenage and adulthood, through all those years when they blame us to be in efficient and weak? They should know about what we are going through.
I really believe that man should be aware of everything like that so that they start respecting women around them.
Remember all those session during your early teenage when girls had a special seminar about sanitary napkins and menstrual hygiene and what did guys do they wait ,they wait outside developing their own funny stories to laugh on .the make there own assumptions. The entire age they remain unaware of the truth and just die along with their misconceptions .and how would they get to know this? Who would tell them about that? when females don’t allow themselves to talk about this, and then we expect men to understand our pain.
Yes I do remember that chapter 9 of NCERT book in class 8th “Reproduction” for which entire class was excited but no one was interested to teach .whatever my teacher taught me was all about plants and rest all was bla bla….english that flew off my brain.
So, this bla bla and lack of awareness made this situation more difficult and uncomfortable for women.
When in this era you celebrate international women’s day and when we talk about women empowerment and equality. then why don’t we understand that sharing and talking about such topics would let men understand women in a much better way and respect them, they won’t judge her in fact would rather try to help her..
If a sperm is important for further DNA extension then ovum is equally important too….
It’s a process not a taboo…
Feel free to talk about periods don’t make it feel like a curse, it’s just another painful process that makes you stronger that makes you a complete women…
Be proud to be what you are…
Feel proud to be a woman…
Thanks for reading

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Motivation Uncategorized

Another number!!


Have you ever watched the movie “Ye Jawani Hai Dewani” really a great concept about life. Remember what did bunny said “unlike others I’m not goanna have same boring life, graduations till 22, job at 24, married by 25, and then after retirement wait…wait till you die”.sound like so boring and lifeless .well that’s the reality and how we actually live not everyone but most of us .I’m sure about at least 90% of us.
A life full of responsibilities, stress, office targets, and pressure to score high, compeditions, studies and bla bla bla…..we have so much to do in such small time.
I so wish if a day could be of more than 24hr.so that at least I could sleep for sometime peacefully. Well can’t help it right?
The era has changed, people are changing too. Now parents do ask their kids about their career preferences rather than imposing their own incomplete dreams.
But, are you guys still sure about whatever you are doing? Are you sure about the course you are perusing at present? About the job you are doing? Were you really sure about what to choose after high school?
I don’t know about you people but I wasn’t. I have never got enough time to explore and try new things, neither to discover my own new personality ,or to think about what I like and what I dislike? What I want do ?How I want to be ?every time I was busy in shaping myself according to the vessel my parents poured me into .
I thought after 10th I’ll be having 3 months (enough time) to think about my future but my bad luck there were no vacations my classes started just after few days of my exams .I opted PCM only because my brother told me that by this I’ll be having many options to mold my career whenever I would be ready and now I would be having two years to decide.
Sounds fine? Yeah…
Now, after I have entered in class XI I got busy with lectures, coaching’s, syllabus, competitions etc. Through all those years I was running behinds everything, and forgot to stop and think, of the direction where I wanted to go. I was just rushing along with that flock of sheep.
Then after 12th my father asked –“what do you want to be? “I was all blank…
I had no idea about what is B.tech for? What is B.com for? What is the difference between B.sc and B.A? What will theses courses make you? What are all UG courses which one was for PG? I didn’t know about any of them.
Because I wasn’t ready with any idea so, my father told me to pursue Btech and become an electrical engineer. I said ok cool no issue. Now the next issue was about college. As I didn’t had any idea about what’s really going .so my destiny threw me here in Bansthali Vidhypith where after spending three years I’ve realized that not every course is worth pursuing and especially when you are not really sure …
Here day after day I have met different kind of people ,faced many challenges ,explored a lot and the best thing I discovered most of me yeah not the whole of me but the most the most of me .
So now I know at least engineering is not my cup of tea…
And that I was made for something else…
May be that’s psychology, may be law, may be literature, I don’t know but I m pretty sure that’s not engineering.
Now a question arises why? Why I’m still doing it? Why I’m still trying to fall in love with these complicated circuits which has made my brain system corrupted? Well that’s only because of my age come on I’m 21 I should be earning before I get 24 and marriage ,you know how the society is ?All those great guys would get booked by the time I’ll be 26 …ha-ha really ??
So that’s why I can’t think of starting my journey with a whole new pace …and is it worth starting with a zero? Is it worth struggling when I’ll need more of my age to invest?
Now do you realize why people usually give upon their dreams and keep on doing the same shit with same unhappy faces? Just because of so many questions which enter into your brain more like virus that eats up all your decision making files…
but why is that age matters more than your life when it’s just the 20% of yours and you are sacrificing whole damm 80%for that ?I can’t waste my 80% in just crying and regretting that I could have been happier if I would have taken just a small step for myself .
I think there is no particular age when you get to know yourself completely. Every next day you discover a new you .and in this life, age could never be a time limit when you have no surety about the next second of your life …
Feel free to do whatever you with to do and whenever you want to .don’t let your age stop you .it’s just another number doesn’t matter if its 21,41or if even its 81…
Live this life, just don’t spend it….
Thanks for reading …