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GOOD MORNING AND HOME

Hey how was your morning today ? was that really good by all those good morning texts? well I don’t know about yours but mine was awesome ….how ? by a morning phone call from almost 300 miles away …
from the only person who would always love me even I would be the worst person of the world ,if I would become the most ugly person … the only person who would always love me the way I am ,will accept all my 365 shades …
I hope you are no thinking of someone special ,actually she is the most special person in my life …my mumma.

Every morning and the evening she makes sure that I don’t miss any of my meal nor any of my important tasks,she makes sure that she would be there whenever I need someone to talk,to share to just laugh with ,to just cry in-front when I have to show my  strength to the entire world ,she always makes sure that I would never loose my hopes that I would never give up…not even when the entire universe would stood against me …
Now you will think whats so special every mother does that … off course every mother does that more often and that’s why they all are so special …not just mothers families are equally important too …not just for a good morning ,not just for a good day ,but for leading a really  great life ,so that you could never forget to live happily with all those hussles and bussles going around. So that you never forget to love yourself
Since from the beautiful morning when your mum rubs her cheeks with yours like a cow does to her calf ,with that cozy hug she gives you along with dad’s funny dance and all those sarcasm he throws upon political parties ,including the mischeives your brother does when he locks  you up in the bathroom and wants you to beg him ….how cruel he could be ugh !! the times when he irritates you with annoying noises and weird faces and all those pillow fights at night ,all those chit chats in the evening with all those funny experiences of everyone in the family ,all those stories grand ma told you ,and those arguments who loves ma papa more or whom does they choose upon among these tom and jerry in the house … oh i am sorry there is an infinetly long list of mine which has made my mornings ,my noon, evening and nights awesome …

From being a thin ,arrogant ,stubborn and in secured child till becoming an overweight (oh I’m sorry I’m not fat just a little fluffy that’s what mum told me…haha) cute ,chubby ,cheerful and an over-pampered kid my journey was full of twits and turns …from being an annoyed ,lazy aimless student till being a hardworking professional my way was full of challenges…challenges that doesn’t only made me stronger but made me realize that how much these people are important to me … that even if you are a king there is no kingship without your ministers and  there is no Royality without a great royal family…

Since past three years I was trying discovering my new shades in this engineering college and I still do cry like if  i am going first time to the school .. I do cry like hell when I miss my home ,when I had to pack my  bagadge while returning back to my cell …

Leaving home always means leaving with your feet, never with your heart

Yes even after spending quite a long time I do feel homesick … more-often
And i am not ashamed of acknowledging this fact that I do miss that warm hug in the morning and at the night ,I do miss all those funny poor jokes ,my peaceful sleep ,that happening environment ,all those chit chats ,arguments ,not just food but the air ,the water ,laughter and everything else … I feel homesick not because i am impractical neither because i am immature  may be its just because I love them may be because I can never stop remembering them may be because they’ve always been with me during all my good times and all those bad times …may be I can never stop missing them . even if I grew older and older even if I’ll be at some different planet even if I do get really loving  people around …I will be always homesick.
And I don’t think being homesick or missing your family in anyway embarrassing I guess they worth missing ,they worth loving ,they worth remembering …

We don’t call it homesick. We call it missing home. There’s not a sickness involved, it’s a state of mind.”

I don’t understand the fact how could people just forget someone who has always been there, who has always cared for you who has always loved you without judging you …?
Career ,life,life partners are important I agree but these things doesn’t worth forgetting the ones who gave you this life ,who made you what you are today .
Keep falling in love but don’t forget loving the ones who always loved you ..
don’t be ashamed of feeling homesick …
“Thanks for reading”
 

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fly high!!


Hey friends hope you remember about my last article on menstruation and its awareness!!!
Well today I’m gonna talk about something related to it, today i’ll be talking about menstrual hygiene and lack of awareness. People like you and me most of us don’t know how our menstrual hygiene is important, lack of attention could lead you to infertility,vaginal infections or it may leads to death also …
When we call something is private it is surely be hidden and taken care of especially. So as our private body parts.
I guess most of you might be well aware of sanitary napkins (pads), have seen in many advertisements .right? Surely.
But have you ever heard of the thing like tampons, menstrual cups, thinx, reusable washable pads? I guess not at least all of them.
So yes other than sanitary napkins there is more menstrual stuff available in the market for not only women hygiene but also the empowerment.
How many of you do think that being a female you should avoid swimming or cycling or may be racing and any another exercising stuff? Do these stain fear stop you somewhere in the ground? Doesn’t let you fly high or to dive deep into sea. Well not any more there are things for you tampons and menstrual cups are the two sensational products that have changed women’s life to a great extent well you don’t wear then more like pads but these things are meant to insert.
Starting with tampons; a tampon is a mass of absorbent material, primarily used as a feminine hygiene product. At present, tampons are designed to be easily inserted in .to the vagina during menstruation and absorb the menstrual flow.

A menstrual cup is a feminine hygiene product that is inserted into the vagina during menstruation. Its purpose is to prevent menstrual fluid (blood containing uterine lining) from leaking onto clothes. Menstrual cups are usually made of flexible medical grade silicone and shaped like a bell with a stem. The stem is used for insertion and removal. The bell-shaped cup seals against the vaginal wall just below the cervix. Every 4–12 hours (depending on the amount of flow), the cup is removed, emptied, rinsed, and reinserted.

In short tampons in some highly absorbable cottony tube that is inserted into the vaginal area and this absorbs blood while cups are made of some soft fiber that is inserted in the vaginal part to collect blood this could be washed and reinserted after 12 to 24 hrs .so now no need to worry about blood stains.
Now moving on to thinx I m dam sure you haven’t heard of it .well these are menstrual panties where the crotch is 4 layers thick and absorbs light to medium amounts of menstrual flow. Girls/young women can wear this type of underwear with or without a tampon. They are washable and reusable and environmentally friendly. So now no need to wearing pads too … well they are quite expensive yet they are way more comfortable than anything else.
Not just this we have more of reusable, washable pads and wide range of tampons and menstrual cups but these entire have some or other limitations along. But in future there would be something more compatible for sure.
Well friends today I won’t ask any questions? But just wait stop and think are you really taking care of your menstrual hygiene and all those women around you see I know that’s quite tough to accept new things but why not? Let’s fly high without looking back …
Try to know more about hygiene products…
Be safe, live life healthy, stay aware …
Thanks for reading ….

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Another number!!


Have you ever watched the movie “Ye Jawani Hai Dewani” really a great concept about life. Remember what did bunny said “unlike others I’m not goanna have same boring life, graduations till 22, job at 24, married by 25, and then after retirement wait…wait till you die”.sound like so boring and lifeless .well that’s the reality and how we actually live not everyone but most of us .I’m sure about at least 90% of us.
A life full of responsibilities, stress, office targets, and pressure to score high, compeditions, studies and bla bla bla…..we have so much to do in such small time.
I so wish if a day could be of more than 24hr.so that at least I could sleep for sometime peacefully. Well can’t help it right?
The era has changed, people are changing too. Now parents do ask their kids about their career preferences rather than imposing their own incomplete dreams.
But, are you guys still sure about whatever you are doing? Are you sure about the course you are perusing at present? About the job you are doing? Were you really sure about what to choose after high school?
I don’t know about you people but I wasn’t. I have never got enough time to explore and try new things, neither to discover my own new personality ,or to think about what I like and what I dislike? What I want do ?How I want to be ?every time I was busy in shaping myself according to the vessel my parents poured me into .
I thought after 10th I’ll be having 3 months (enough time) to think about my future but my bad luck there were no vacations my classes started just after few days of my exams .I opted PCM only because my brother told me that by this I’ll be having many options to mold my career whenever I would be ready and now I would be having two years to decide.
Sounds fine? Yeah…
Now, after I have entered in class XI I got busy with lectures, coaching’s, syllabus, competitions etc. Through all those years I was running behinds everything, and forgot to stop and think, of the direction where I wanted to go. I was just rushing along with that flock of sheep.
Then after 12th my father asked –“what do you want to be? “I was all blank…
I had no idea about what is B.tech for? What is B.com for? What is the difference between B.sc and B.A? What will theses courses make you? What are all UG courses which one was for PG? I didn’t know about any of them.
Because I wasn’t ready with any idea so, my father told me to pursue Btech and become an electrical engineer. I said ok cool no issue. Now the next issue was about college. As I didn’t had any idea about what’s really going .so my destiny threw me here in Bansthali Vidhypith where after spending three years I’ve realized that not every course is worth pursuing and especially when you are not really sure …
Here day after day I have met different kind of people ,faced many challenges ,explored a lot and the best thing I discovered most of me yeah not the whole of me but the most the most of me .
So now I know at least engineering is not my cup of tea…
And that I was made for something else…
May be that’s psychology, may be law, may be literature, I don’t know but I m pretty sure that’s not engineering.
Now a question arises why? Why I’m still doing it? Why I’m still trying to fall in love with these complicated circuits which has made my brain system corrupted? Well that’s only because of my age come on I’m 21 I should be earning before I get 24 and marriage ,you know how the society is ?All those great guys would get booked by the time I’ll be 26 …ha-ha really ??
So that’s why I can’t think of starting my journey with a whole new pace …and is it worth starting with a zero? Is it worth struggling when I’ll need more of my age to invest?
Now do you realize why people usually give upon their dreams and keep on doing the same shit with same unhappy faces? Just because of so many questions which enter into your brain more like virus that eats up all your decision making files…
but why is that age matters more than your life when it’s just the 20% of yours and you are sacrificing whole damm 80%for that ?I can’t waste my 80% in just crying and regretting that I could have been happier if I would have taken just a small step for myself .
I think there is no particular age when you get to know yourself completely. Every next day you discover a new you .and in this life, age could never be a time limit when you have no surety about the next second of your life …
Feel free to do whatever you with to do and whenever you want to .don’t let your age stop you .it’s just another number doesn’t matter if its 21,41or if even its 81…
Live this life, just don’t spend it….
Thanks for reading …