Every day may not be good but there is something good in every day” said correctly by some random person who understood the deep core of life ….. it’s just at a distance of a crucial point .. which is, Optimism or positivity.
We all know that positive thinking is a mental or emotional attitude which lets us see the bright side of life. A positive person expects happiness, success, and all good results in life.
But does positivity limits itself to boundaries of an individual life only or only till expectations of all good results? Why is it important to be positive in one’s life?
Positivity does not limit itself to only expectations of best results and getting all goal of life with flying colors, it also deals with the aftermath.. what if one day you lose a chance or even may lose a fight with life, then what ??
A child when born becomes the hope for his or her parents’ life. They nurture that child with their blood sweat and tears, both of them are trying their hardest to give you a better life than theirs … specially a mother , who keeps you as a part of herself for 9 months and then bring you to this world by almost breathtaking and dreadful pain… and then one day you a fail a mere exam, which is obviously not bigger than you, and hang yourself to death without even thinking about them for 2 minutes with your right set of mind … does life finishes, the moment you failed your exam !!? THIS IS ABSOLUTE UNGRATEFULNESS!!!!
Being positive does not only mean to think good of every situation but also to be thankful to all the things , people , opportunities of your life and even the failures. Positivity is power and your feelings are your power whether it is positivity or negativity …. for example if you will only look out for negativity in your job then in return the job will also give you negativity, say- no promotions, a grumpy supervisor, non-cooperating and ungrateful colleagues etc. It’s like a cycle of give and take, where you will receive whatever you give out in the universe.
Believe it or not but we humans, are like magnets … what?? is it hard to believe for you? , then lets see it for yourself, if we begin our day with a ‘good mood’ and then our day will also return that ‘good mood’ in many ways, for example, let’s say its morning and you are on your way to university or job, suddenly you remember that you haven’t completed some Very important task given to you by your boss or professor, you start to panic, concerned about your image in front of that said senior but in such situation too, you decide to not loose your cool or curse the circumstances. You decide to give your sincere apologies to the professor or boss without any lame excuses and except the fact that you were not careful enough and you will make sure that such a thing wont happen in future.
There you go this is what a healthy mindset is all about. People tend to forget that excepting their mistake or apologisingis not the sign of disgrace but it is a step from you towards being a better human being. And the story above is a true incident of my life…and yours too. Let’s face we all have faced or will definitely face such morning in our life where we forgot something important to do. To be honest sometimes in my case, the professor would mysteriously forget the VERY IMPORTANT TASK she had given and we all were saved, and yes it was only sometimes.
A small world of positivity and thankfulness can make your day and even your peers’ and everyone around you, Its all about vibes … it can give us all amount of mental peace that a human craves for .. love, happiness, excitement for anything new , adventure , satisfaction and the biggest one – hope for a new beautiful day to be given by god , these are all perks given by positivity .
What if one day you woke up in morning and find your self falling in endless pit of sorrow and hopelessness , where you can see no future for yourself , everything that was important to you was driven away from you and you lost your appetite and desire to wake up in morning and start new day … lets take a famous example – Sylvester Stallone , who is a star of Hollywood and idol to look upon. In his words, at point in life “because I was at the end – the very end – of my rope” he was born with a facial paralysis due to the doctor’s mistake , did it prevented him from doing and giving his best in hope of better life everyday ?
Lets take another coming of age example … Lilly Singh aka Superwoman , who at a point was at the pit where she cannot see her future and everything was hopeless. no goals, no job , no sparks left in her . situation worsened with panic attacks where she was thought herself dead and she was end of life , but her determination and positivity gathered her courage to clean the crap out of her life , and start even if there was no ray of hope . She started walking in dark and made her first video for her YouTube channel iisuperwomanii , with 10 views and some ugly and racist comments she started a journey which is now today over 13 million subscribers known as #teamsuper , many awards, a millionnaire and a place in name of top 10 youtubers
What if they both have stopped trying and gave up on their lives , they would have cursed and be pessimist or in other words be a LOSER in life as they gave to life without even trying once …
Its never over !! You can do it , overcome your fear , mould your failures into success and hussle harder . Its life which should follow you not you , who should follow life . its never late to fight back because the greatest obstacle you face is not anyone else but you …
Truly as I started writing this article …oh scratch that ..this kind of open letter for my first blog because of the season of BOARDS AND OTHER ENTRANCE EXAMS which somehow are compared to the ghosts of Paranormal activity in this country, where the supercool parents also looses there chill